Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Back to Nature

Last weekend I finally got a chance to check out a local orchard and pick blackberries. It was a beautiful day to be out in sun, listening to the wind and the trees swaying and choosing the ripest, juiciest berries. It was a great opportunity to catch up with friends and an incredibly serene experience to be away from the city. To not hear cars or be in a crowded store or restaurant and not be distracted by typical urban priorities.

They had over 6,000 blackberry plants and we took our time picking fruit, talking and just enjoying the moment. It wasn't about the end result (which turned out to be 2 pounds of blackberries), it was about enjoying the process, the scenery and absorbing everything at once.

Sometimes when we stay indoors, even on a vacation, we miss out on the natural bliss nature provides. We sleep in and enjoy some television or leisure computer time, go to a store and shop but then you lose that opportunity to be outdoors and just be yourself and not be in hurry to get something done or go anywhere.

So my recommendation, with the beautiful summer season almost upon us, is to get outside when you can and get in touch with nature. You won't be disappointed and will be surprised how a little sunshine really does brighten anything else that may be weighing down the mind or distracting you from being in joy everyday.

Sunday, May 22, 2011

The Action in Hope


I work in a lovely clinic where over 50% of our patients are there primarily for fertility support. First off, I rarely use the word infertility. Words can be extremely powerful; and in a situation where there has been great frustration and challenges in order to achieve the goal of pregnancy, the labeling aspect of being 'infertile' can be a problem to overcome mentally. So I mostly like to think of it as the body having obstacles in the way of expressing its own natural means of fertility, in other words, fertility 'difficulty.'

The tricky part is figuring out what that 'difficulty' is, what is in the way. It could be something as simple as a nutritional deficiency, hormonal imbalance, or an energy block within the body's sensitive energetic system. Or it could be years of stress, draining the body's ability to handle the incredible amount of energy necessary to create another being. Do not underestimate the impact of creating life and the toll it takes on the body to make it happen, as well as bring life into this world.

Women are constantly given short shrift for our strength of character in dealing with pain, the amount of stress and responsibility we put on ourselves in the name of love for family, friends, and work. This is part of the reason Women's Health is so complex and there are so many factors to consider.

We are so accustomed to instant gratification and the belief that pills can cure everything. But first we need to take responsibility for our own health and happiness. Lifestyle choices and foods can heal as much as attitude and stress management. Can it be tough to change and adapt to new habits? Absolutely. Change is always difficult. But you can't avoid the signs in your life if you are wilting away or bursting at the seams, even if you are not trying to prepare for fertility.

The important thing to realize is you matter and the never ending to-do-list doesn't go away. So you can't get hung up on completing everything, all at once and with perfection. Life always gets in the way and it's important to enjoy the journey and beauty around you along the way. When we forget to put a little TLC for ourselves on our 'list', we lose a bit of that revitalizing essence that helps us remember what we want. To help us remember why we always deserve what we want. There is always hope but there is also a choice in how to act and how to treat ourselves. One of the hardest lessons in compassion is not giving it to other people, but to ourselves. So I leave you with one of my favorite poems by Rumi.

Let the Beauty You Seek Be What You Do

Absorbed in this world, you've made it your burden.
Rise above this world. There is another vision.
All your life you've paid attention to your experiences, but never to your Self.
Are you searching for your Soul? Then come out of your prison.
Leave the stream and join the river that flows into the Ocean.
It will not lead you astray.
Let the beauty you seek be what you do.

Monday, May 9, 2011

Art Therapy Interview

To delve deeper into the topic of the healing aspects of creativity I interviewed Mary Jo Zawalski, a passionate artist residing in New York who helps people through artistic expression and loves it. It was very kind of her to share what being an art therapist entails and her view of how it can be used as a tool for healing.



Mary Jo, tell us about yourself and how you got involved in art therapy?


I've been into art since I could hold a crayon or clay without dropping it. My dad introduced me to artmaking.In school, I began a path toward a higher education in visual arts, with music as a close companion, though I also maintained an interest in the sciences. In my undergraduate years I realized I was not interested in "art for art's sake", or for art as business. I met people whose lives were revolutionized by their art! And I began shifting my career toward art therapy.


Can you describe what being an art therapist entails?

Being an art therapist entails much more than creativity/artistic ability plus desire to help others. It takes great courage, incredible personal flexibility, and, I think, a perserverance that borders on stubbornness. I will explain: It's given that the would-be art therapist will encounter the gamut of emotionally/psychologically troubled persons. But it is also true that he/she will face the best and the worst in human nature---sometimes on a daily basis---not just in clients but in their relatives, friends, and coworkers, in person and by stories.


As for personal flexibility, art therapists must constantly reinvent themselves. By this I mean one may need to adapt their professional role when dealing with different clients, different client demographics, or different institutions. Most art therapists draw from other creative disciplines and/or run non-art groups on a regular basis. Generally, art therapy is not a high-paying profession, so it's typical to work one or more jobs even if one is full time. Art therapists' second jobs may include teaching, tutoring, bartending, and yes, serving in restaurants!


As in traditional therapy, the therapist must be able to reinvent himself/herself without losing the self. In other words, ego strength must be solid, for the art therapist routinely faces counter-transference: clients/situations that unconsciously remind the therapist of his/her past. These may be positive, negative, or mixed. So the therapist needs to prepare and recognize this before he/she reacts to the client.

Of course there is also the technical training---in New York: masters' degree, limited permit, license, registration, board certification exam, and continuing education credits. It's a loooooooong process!!!


Describe a typical day for you.


I work an unusual schedule: noon to 8pm, Thursday through Monday in an acute psychiatric hospital. A typical day for me includes running four to six patient activity groups on different units. Clients are segmentedby age and some by gender. I usually have an hour to do clinical charting, and a one hour break to make preparations for groups, eat, etc.


Why do you think being creative is healing?


I'm humanistic in philosophy, so I think being creative is healing because creativity takes people off-guard, opening up their subconscious and revealing within themselves possible solutions to their problems. I see my therapeutic role as a catalyst for this positive reaction to occur in the client/patient.


What is the most rewarding aspect of your job?


It's hard to determine the most rewarding part of my job. I work with a diverse, supportive and often fun care team. There are positive affirmations about my work from patients and staff AND I get to color with crayons and sidewalk chalk at work!!! Oh, and I get to dance and hula hoop too!!!


What do you recommend someone try or do to incorporate the healing aspects of art into their lives?


People can definitely tap into the healing power of art in their daily lives. How many times have we felt refreshed by music playing or by looking out the window at springtime colors? After all, art includes art appreciation. Beyond this, it helps to look at artmaking as more than a formal or serious process with the goal of producing a masterpiece. Art can and should be about playing, too. Creative play is both relaxing and stimulating, giving a break from routine. One of my favorite forms of creative play is cooking/baking, tweaking recipes, pretending I'm a famous chef, even dancing around the kitchen! I have to cook, but I make it fun.


Mary Jo Zawalski

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Cucumber Yogurt Salad!


This is the best time of the year to get into the season of fresh produce and different types of salads. I recently discovered this Indian inspired cumber salad recipe and wanted to share. Cucumbers are natural diuretics, cleansing the body and Springtime is the best time to detox and eat lighter foods versus the heavier winter fare. Yogurt is a great way to get calcium and natural probiotics, which boost the immune system and keep the digestive tract healthy. And I heard somewhere that a little bit of spicy goes a long way to improving mood and happiness. Only put two serrano chili peppers in mine, but if you can take the heat, add more! Try it out and the flavors might surprise you. = )

Recipe for Cucumber Yogurt Salad (serves 2)

2 large cucumbers
2 serrano green chilies
1/3 cup of plain yogurt
1/2 tablespoon of coriander
1/4-1/2 teaspoon of sugar, to taste
1/2 teaspoon of salt
garnish with crushed peanuts

1. Peel cucumbers, slice in half in order to scoop out the seeds. Dice and place into bowl.
2. Cut the top and bottom of chili peppers and scoop out the seeds (or not if you prefer the kick). Dice and place into bowl.
3. Add yogurt to bowl and mix quickly. Then add coriander, sugar and salt. I would do a taste test to make sure you don't want more.
4. Serve with a splash of crushed peanuts on top. Enjoy!